Police detectives went to Nevada and arrested a man today in the murder of my daughter who was born Judith Marie Lee on September 5, 1966. She was murdered in her home in August 2001.

I had no idea how much this was weighing on my heart until I heard this news. I never thought he would see the inside of a cell. I am cynical enough to believe it's probably okay to kill a woman in this country, if she isn't someone important.

I have no idea how I feel, other than relieved. I know that not forgiving him is like taking poison and hoping that he will die, but I'm not at forgiveness just yet.